Connection. Just assume it. Whether it is with your cat, a friend or a dead lover. Some people use an imaginary god. That’s why predatory religions (all) and cults seek vulnerable folks in transition and loss, to offer a sense of missing connection, for profit. The priests have to get paid somehow.
Some people use drugs to recreate the hormonal feel good response of a sense of connection.
Death is therefore like a drug withdrawal. If you are an orphan without connection resources, you have to create it for yourself. Then you are free of any dependance. This is deprogramming that churches hate. Independance that comes with freedom of choice.
Just assume a connection, especially with yourself and bypass the woo woo ripoff, dependency and programming and keep your cash.
homage to cinema paradiso and its abandoned child